Guidelines for Visiting Loved Ones in a Senior Living Community
When a loved one moves into a senior living community, it is a change not just for them, but for everyone involved. Visits from close family and friends are important to aid in the transition and nurture ongoing relationships. Here are a few tips to keep in mind to ensure your visits are meaningful and enjoyable for both you and your loved one:
Preparation is Key
Before your visit, it’s helpful to call ahead to check on any specific visiting hours or guidelines the community has in place. Some communities have scheduled activities or events, and you might want to coordinate your visit to participate in these events, or plan around them if you prefer a one-on-one visit.
Engage in Meaningful Activities
Planning activities that your loved one enjoys can make your visit more pleasant for both of you. This could include simple activities like reading a book together, playing a card or board game, or watching a favorite movie. If your loved one enjoys being outdoors, ask if you can walk through the community’s garden or sit together on a bench in the shade. Communities may also have a list of suggested activities based on their location that you can speak with the staff about prior to visiting.
Listen and Share
One of the most important aspects of your visit is using your time to listen and share. Ask your loved one about their day, their thoughts, and their feelings. Share news from home, updates on family and friends, or interesting stories from your own life. Ask open-ended questions about their past, favorite memories, and current interests. These discussions not only stimulate their memory but also provide you with a deeper understanding of their life experiences. Consider writing down these conversations to serve as a keep-sake for yourself and other family members.
Bring Thoughtful Gifts
One of the most difficult parts about moving into a senior living community is leaving behind items and familiarity from the past. Consider bringing a gift that has sentimental value or reminds them of home. This could be a favorite treat, a new book, or something with personal significance like a photo album or a framed picture. A small, thoughtful gift can brighten your loved one’s day and make their new residence feel more like home.
Be Mindful of Physical and Cognitive Changes
As your loved one ages, they may experience physical and cognitive changes. Be mindful of any hearing or vision impairments, mobility issues, or memory challenges they might have when planning your visit. Adapting your communication style and activities to their needs can make your visit more comfortable for them. Regular communication with the staff will keep you up to date on recent changes and needs for your loved one.
Visiting a loved one in a senior living community is a great way to maintain your bond and show your support. By understanding the community’s guidelines, planning thoughtful activities, and engaging in meaningful conversations, you can make each visit a memorable and positive experience. Your presence, care, and attention can significantly impact your loved one’s happiness and well-being.
To learn more, contact the Providence Life Service team.
